Be careful what online dating app you use! By Jo Lucas So, a few months back, refreshed and full of optimism, I loaded up (the apps not the SSB wine!) and started furiously swiping on my continuing mission to find myself a decent guy! I’d had a bit of time away from the…

Does Zombieing hurt more than Ghosting? By Jo Lucas If you’re like me then the word ‘Zombie’ either conjures up images of the tv show ‘The Walking Dead’ or the 90’s epic song by the Cranberries … you’re singing the song in your head now aren’t you … yeah so am I! Well, I’m here to…

Does changing your name change your life? By Jo Lucas So, little Brooklyn Beckham is all grown up and he married his sweetheart in a lavish $3m reception that hit the headlines in every corner of the world and good on them — the old romantic in me melts a…

Is there an easier way to find love in your late forties? — Always blame the booze and day drinking! So, on a rainy late Sunday afternoon, I download the dating app … yet again. I’m not sure why, maybe it’s the glass (ok … make that two large glasses!) of NZ Sauvignon Blanc I’ve just consumed that has made me brave enough to do it (yeah …. …

I guess that’s what a lot of people ask themselves, mostly during chaotic events in their lives, and it’s the one question that provides infinite answers and probabilities as they search for their purpose. My question today is more specific and relates directly to why I am here on Medium…